25 Things I’ve learned in 25 years

 

Just over a month ago I celebrated my 25th birthday! Now thinking about it, i really can’t believe i’m officially a quarter of a century years old. Gone are the days where i could say phrases like, ‘i’m just a kid’ or ‘Leave me alone, i’m only little!’ (Well tbh i am only 5ft something, so we’ll continue rinsing this phrase unless by some miracle i receive a quarter life growth spurt!)

 

Anyways, we’re officially grown over here! In celebration of reaching this milestone, i thought it would be great to reflect on my journey thus far and share some nuggets of wisdom with my fellow young grasshoppers. Whatever stage you are at in your journey, i believe its so important to reflect on how far you have come, recognise all achievements made and take the time to set new goals in place for yourself. As you grow, you will encounter new experiences which will impact your overall perception on life. You will be tested, but ultimately it comes down to your ability to adapt/embrace change.

 

Now, i’m not saying I’ve got this thing called ‘life’ solved…but here are a few lessons that I’ve learned along the way:

 

 

‘Life is not happening to you, its happening because of you’ – However you’re feeling, at this present moment know that all things are happening as a result of the actions you have taken. It sounds crazy but, we have the power to attract certain situations into our lives, be it good or bad. Which takes me onto my next point…

 

The Law of Attraction – If you haven’t read ‘The Secret’ what are you really doing with your life? This book has honestly changed my perception on life and the decisions I make. Knowing about the Law of Attraction has been a game changer, opening the door for me to practice positive thinking, affirmations etc. To put it simply, the universe responds to the energy and vibes that we put out. Read the book, and tell me if i’m over hyping lol

 

‘No matter what, get up, dress up, show up’ – I love this quote, its such a great attitude to have. Even in those dark moments, its important to pick yourself up and carry on. If I am struggling to stay motivated, I often remind myself of how proud/accomplished I will feel after completing a task…this drives me to get the job done!

 

Let go and Let God/ Don’t be afraid to ask for help/Communication is key– How many of us are culprits of trying to take everything on by ourselves? Sometimes, I forget to share the load due to my own preference on how I’d like things done. There’s nothing wrong with being independent, but it’s ok to ask for help every now and again…in fact it shows great strength. Whether you believe in God, the power of the universe etc…having a safe place or someone to lean on when you need help is important. 

 

Self Love is everything! – The theme of my life right now and forever more! I can’t stress enough how important it is to practise self love and care. The older I get, the more I realise its ok to carve the time out for myself too. You need it. Self love is vital for your self esteem, self worth, values…the list is endless. Learning to love myself more is one of the best decisions I have made in my adult life. It has given me the ability to recognise my abilities and how I deserve to be treated. 

 

Take some time to relax/Balance – Life can be pretty stressful at times. It is important to take a moment to relax in order to regenerate your energy. 

 

Don’t take your loved ones for granted – I’ve had my fair share of losses over the year and one thing I can honestly advise, appreciate your loved ones whilst they are still here. Never take people for granted as no one is promised tomorrow. 

 

Exercise – Guess who’s just signed up for a gym membership for  the thousandth time!! On a serious note, I am excited/ determined to stay on track with my fitness journey. For me, its more about staying healthy as apposed to loosing weight. 

 

Drink plenty of water – Pretty self explanatory. I’m guilty of not drinking enough of the stuff, but I am making more of a conscious effort! 

 

Practise Gratitude – For me, practising gratitude falls in line with the Law of Attraction. Its so easy to get caught up in a negative mind space, focusing on the things we don’t have. However, practising gratitude opens the door for greater blessings, more opportunities. 

 

Compare yourself to NO ONE/Be confident/Protect your energy- In todays society, it is so easy to fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others. The pressures of social media and its influence is at an all time high! The older I get, the more I have learnt to be comfortable in my own skin. I am more conscience of what I allow into my environment and make it my mission to protect my energy. This also falls under self love as the more you love yourself, the less you will feel the need to compare yourselves to others. We all have our own things going for us, be happy for others, and focus on getting yours!

 

Travel – A few years ago, I made it one of my goals to travel more. I love getting the  opportunity to experience a new environment and the cultures that come with it. This year I hope to add to my list…next up….Greece!!

 

Laugh Often/Nothing is worth stressing over – In life, I believe there is a certain turning point where you come to realise what’s truly important. Stressing over little things just isn’t worth it. At the end of the day, all you can do is work hard and apply yourself in order to achieve your dreams. We have to accept that things will happen out of our control, just be sure to laugh often and embrace life’s journey every step of the way. 

 

Do it Afraid/Challenge yourself/Embrace change – Sometimes, we have to push ourselves out of our comfort zone in order to achieve the life of our dreams. I’m rarely prepared for a change, but when it comes I have to choose whether to embrace it or choose the easy option and run away. In the face of adversity, you have to decide whether you are willing to go through the hard times and come out the other end a stronger, more experienced person. I often find that by taking on challenging tasks and ‘doing it afraid’ I feel a greater sense of accomplishment. 

 

Stop procrastinating/Be Consistent –  Aaah procrastination…one of life’s biggest time wasters. I’m still guilty of this one, not going to lie- but I am making a conscious effort to be more consistent and procrastinate less. ‘Say what you mean and mean what you say’.

 

LIVE!!! – Life is for living, embracing new experiences and creating great memories along the way. At the end of the day, we only get once chance at this thing (unless you believe in reincarnation, do you) may as well have fun whilst doing it. Live your best life!!

How to: Experience London Fashion Week for Free!

That’s right, you read correctly- you too can have that London Fashion Week experience all without breaking the bank! Sound too good to be true? As a small time blogger, i understand the struggle of not receiving those lush opportunities well known bloggers might receive. For some of us, it would be the ultimate dream to be seated front row at the hottest catwalks. But who’s to say that we can’t get a taste of the Lavish lifestyle? Fancy experiencing the glitz and glam of this season’s most raved about event? In this post, i share with you some amazing Fashion events taking place during London Fashion week! And the best part? YES, these events are absolutely free! All you need to do is simply click on the links provided and register for you’re free ticket!

Let me know if you come across any events which are sold out…i might just have a spare ticket for you to claim! No need to break the bank keeping up with this seasons trends, simply secure yourself a travel card and get ready to have the ultimate London Fashion Week experience!!

Couture & Cocktails by: Dumebi

Fri, Feb 16, 2018, 5:00 PM – Mon, Feb 19, 2018, 4:00 PM

‘Kensington Fashion show & Pop-up event. Join us at our Couture & Cocktails Kensington Fashion show & 3 day Pop up event on Friday 16th February to Monday 19th February 2018 during London fashion week. Featuring exclusive handmade creations from emerging Artists, Couture clothing designer and Artisan accessory brands’  Register for your ticket here 

Presentations + Concept Store, presented by LDC

Fri, Feb 16, 2018, 10:00 AM – Tue, Feb 20, 2018, 5:00 PM

LOCATION

3 Slingsby Place, London, WC2E 9AB

‘Expect daily live fashion presentations previewing new and unseen collections, networking and women in business events, workshop + talk evenings, free goodies + happy hours, exciting panel discussions and evening events running all week.’ Register for your ticket here

Beyond Heritage: Mulberry at Spencer House

17th Feb Sat, 17 Feb 2018, 10:00 – Sun, 18 Feb 2018, 17:00

LOCATION

Spencer House, 27 Saint James’s Place, London, SW1A 1NR

To celebrate the launch of the Spring Summer ‘18 collection, Mulberry is taking over the magnificent eighteenth-century Spencer House hosting ‘Beyond Heritage’: a series of presentations and workshops across the weekend of Saturday 17th and Sunday 18th February. These public events centre around Mulberry collaborators who have a shared passion for craft, fashion and quality. Guests will also be able to enjoy the Palm Room tea house. Register for your ticket here

 

Fashions Finest AW 18

Sat, 17 Feb 2018, 13:00 – Sun, 18 Feb 2018, 15:00

LOCATION

De Vere Grand Connaught Rooms, 61-65 Great Queen Street, London, WC2B 5DA

‘Fashions Finest is an established independent trade event showcasing hand selected emerging and established designers each season, from the UK and oversees during London Fashion Week.’ Register for your ticket here

Designer Pop Up Event by Shopest

Sunday, February 18, 2018 11:00 AM – 11:00 PM

LOCATION

Souk Medina, 1a Shorts Gardens, London, WC2H 9AT

A mix of inspirational, International and local London designers, have come together to make this THE event not to miss! 2 Days and nights of shopping, music exciting live catwalk shows, drinks and lots of entertainment. All day shopping till 9 pm and 2 exclusive invitation-only high profile events for both evenings. Register for your ticket here

We Heart Mondays Fashion Week Lounge

Feb 19, 2018 at 6:00pm – 9:00pm

LOCATION

We Heart Mondays HQ, Swan Wharf , 60 Dace Road, London, E3 2NQ

 

 

‘We’re bringing the fun to London Fashion Week this season, with our ‘Fresh As A Daisy’ themed Fashion Week Lounge Get spoilt by our brands who will be gifting their products and providing interactive experiences throughout the event’ Register for your ticket here

PROJECT RED 2018 – CATWALK SHOW

Friday, February 23, 2018 at 4:55 PM

LOCATION

The Cass, London Metropolitan University

‘PROJECT RED is an annual live catwalk show from the BA (Hons) Fashion course at The Cass, held in the Atrium at Goulston Street. The show, which marks the end to this year’s Celebration Week at The Cass, features work from first year students on The Cass BA (Hons) Fashion degree and will be followed by a drinks reception with staff and students.’ Register for your free ticket here

Private shopping experience by: Meet the designers!

Sat, February 24, 2018 1:00 AM – 5:00 PM

LOCATION

The Gallery, Oxford Circus, London, W1T

 

‘Private Shopping Experience for Men and Women with up to 75% Off purchase (selected items) on the day from the latest collection of our selected designers to update your style, buy gifts for loved ones and celebrate a new season.’  Register for your ticket here 

See You There!

So, what are you waiting for?? For a chance to experience London Fashion Week for absolutely free, register now! See whats in store for next seasons trends and set your sight on collections from well known designers/brands. I hope you have an amazing time and please be sure to comment your experience if you do register for any of the above events- i’d love to read it! See you there!

(Descriptions of the events were sourced from the websites linked above)